Two years ago this week I was told about a little boy. This little boy is a boy I had been called to pray for 5 months earlier. It wasn't until 4 months into praying for him that it occurred to me, "What if? What if I am to be his mother???" I was told about this boy but I was not yet matched with this boy. His paperwork was not complete. They were working on it and they have continued to work on it for two year.
I pushed and pushed and pushed for this little guy! I saw him twice. I loved him as my own. I enlisted LOTS and LOTS of people to pray for him. (I should add that he had no idea I wished to adopt him).
As a result of all that prayer and work something quite amazing happened! I did not ultimately get matched with him to adopt him. Even in the midst of all of this uncertainty, Haitian law also changed and it was not a guarantee that I would actually get matched with him. If God willed it to be then I knew it would happen. I received word last week that I needed to have a conference call with my adoption agency and the orphanage.
This little boy was going home! Yes, my heart ached, briefly. But more than an ache God gave me the most AMAZING peace I think I have ever known! He told me, "You prayed and prayed and prayed! You loved him with a mother's love! You committed to him! You were on your knees daily crying for him! And your prayers have been answered. He has a family. His birth family!" I thank God for allowing me to be a part of this process for him. I will NEVER stop praying for him. I pray even now that he and his family bond and attach and their love for each other grows. I pray he is safe. I pray he is nourished and warm and happy! More than anything I pray he knows and feels the LOVE of his HEAVENLY FATHER and that he knows HE is taking care of him.
I wondered about sharing a picture or two but feel it is best that I don't.
My paperwork has been in Haiti for nine months now and it is waiting to be matched with a child's paperwork. Please continue to pray! God news is yet to come!
Saturday, February 22, 2014
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
One Year Ago Today
One year ago today I got on a plane and landed in Port-au-Prince, Haiti. I experienced that marvelous ride in the back of an open truck up the mountain and I arrived with my mom at GLA where I met Mackenley. I have loved him for months, but today we met face to face.
I went to check on him after lunch and when he saw me his legs and whole body flew over the side of his crib and to me he ran! Ready to keep playing!
The first picture I posted on FB of Mack and me <3
Oh to know what he is thinking!
Grandma or Mama as he affectionally calls her and Mack on our first day with him.
It was a terribly difficult wait! Each step along the way was painstaking. Yet it was just one year ago, 365 days ago that we met and now he has been home for 3 months and one week! It doesn't seem that long now and I can't remember not knowing him, loving him, caring for him and being "mommy."
Thank you Lord for this beautiful, painful, redemptive journey that you have set me on!
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Anyone from Minnesota?
She wrote, "Is there anyone on this page adopting from GLA who lives in Minnesota?"
Today the daughter of this person is one of Mack's favorite people in the world.
I have met 100s of people on Facebook who are adopting from Haiti. I have had teens I mentor talk to me about internet safety. :-)
Before Mack came home these people provided the best support and encouragement. We are going through the same process. They get it when no one else does. For a time, I felt God put people these people in my life for me.
Did He? Yes I think so. I am beginning to see though that two years ago he already knew that my little boy was going to need the comfort and friendship of this little girl he dearly loves. So I responded to a facebook post and now a little boy and a little girl who lived in Haiti at the same orphanage live twenty minutes away from each other in Minnesota.
There are several families here in MN. Then there are families from all over the US and Canada with kids Mack loves. Sometimes we FaceTime. Most of the time we look at pictures and his face lights up as recounts each child's name.
I look forward to what these relationships will mean to him as he grows into the man God has created him to be.
This weekend we spent time with five other families. So fun and also something that could just make me cry cause I'm like, WOW God, you care SO very much! It's amazing!
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Adoption #2
I received news today that my 2nd dossier was submitted into IBESR on November 26. The process is different now. There is a new law in Haiti concerning adoptions. Last time, my dossier and Mackenley's went into IBESR (the FIRST and one of the BIGGEST steps in this process) together. This time, my dossier is in and at some point it will be matched with a child and then I will be given that referral. I will then go to Haiti for 2 weeks. This is ANOTHER BIG change. I do not know the time frame for all of this. I am thrilled to have my dossier into IBESR and of course will be WAITING to get out next! My next news will be the referral of a child...Mack's sibling! Please keep all of this in prayer, especially as to the timing of everything. Thanks!!!!
Saturday, December 14, 2013
2 months home
****twice I have tried to add pics and twice safari has shut down....so for now, not pics :-(
By date on the calendar, today is the two month anniversary of Mack setting foot in the USA! It's pretty hard to even think back to how things were in those first days and weeks.
Currently he is sound asleep in his own bed with his monkey and Snoopy. Bed time is sooooooo sweet now. We read Good Night Moon and the Runaway Bunny in my bed (although tonight we read The Story of Christmas), then we pray (how he folds his hands the ENTIRE time I pray, which is often a long time, and how he has his own things to pray too) and then we sing Jesus Loves Me (to which he sings along now) Jesus loves the little children and Jesus Name Above All Names, before setting him into bed. Tonight he didn't get out. Most nights he gets up once or twice and I no longer need to put him back, I simple say "THREE, TWO..." and his little feet run him back and under the covers he goes :-)
He repeats EVERYTHING and talks away in Creole. On the way home from school each day I go through the colors and names of people we love. He repeats everything fairly clearly. Yesterday I got to my aunt Jackie and he says, "Jackie." I say, "Grandma," and he says, "Jackie," I say, "Grandpa," and he says, "Jackie." I look back like, WHAT?!?!? He is tugging at his jacket saying, "Jackie! Jackie!" LOL.
He has completed two weeks in his classroom at school. He truly enjoys it. He cries every morning as I leave him. He gives me the BEST smile and hug in the world when I come to pick him up.
He expects to watch "Elmo's Christmas Countdown" every morning before school (tough to do, but I need some time to get ready, so he watches it from 5:30-6:00).
He and the cats are best buds. He disciplines them regularly as well, pointing his finger and telling them, "NO!" and "Stop!"
He has received two haircuts from his Uncle Jermaine and is just the cutest!
He loves to have company, although his behavior can be quite unpredictable when we do have guests over. Grandma and Grandpa are his favorites to see along with his cousins and his buddies from GLA.
When he wakes in the night and comes to my room he goes right to his bed that is beside my bed. I am just amazed at his adjustment sleeping wise. He is comfortable and secure.
He LOVES his bath time. I think the laying in the tub up to his eye balls started from being so tired from his day at school but now this is a nightly tradition. He lays flat down and is unaffected by the water creeping close to his eyes, nose and mouth! He picks bath toys up with his feet and listens to the sound under the water as well as above.
As far as English on his own, he is saying "Eat," "Please, Mommy," "I love you," "Kitties," "I want...." "Banana," "Elmo," "Jesus," "Amen," "Bunny," "Stop," "What," "All done," "Wait," "Baby," "Water," "Monkey," Bye-Bye," "Hi," "Hello," "Ball," "Hot," "Snow," "Yummy," "Icky,"......can't wait to see what the next month holds! I am sure there are more words than this, but this is a good list for now!"
Today we went to the Santa Brunch at his school. I showed him a picture of Santa before we went. He said, "JESUS!" Ha, ha. We sat in the lunchroom and it was so fun to see how his table behavior has changed in two months! At his school the kids sit at tables for meals with open top cups and plates of food. He sat there today and ate his breakfast with no issues! Tonight we went out to eat and for the first time I did not put him in a high chair and no bib. He has GROWN so much!!!!
This child of mine cleans up after himself. He shovels with and for me (SO cute, he really shovels!) He helps me load the washer and dryer. He can get in and out of the car and carseat by himself. When he is done with the bath he tells me so, opens the drain and cleans up all of the toys. :-) He tolerates getting his hair brushed now. He told me, "I love you," without me saying it first! He is STRONGER than any little child I have ever known and I just can't wait to see what he will do athletically with this body of his! When I lotion him up at night and get to his hands he squeezes my hands SO hard that I know I will be able to teach him how to massage and he will someday rub his mommy's hands, feet and back! (here's hoping!)
He loves play doh, cars, Elmo, books, balls, shoes, balloons, and the list goes on. He does NOT like hats or mittens! He also STOPS dead in his tracks every time we get ready to leave the house now and this is due to the cold he feels. Today he stopped, looked at me and said, "Bye bye" and turned around as if he was staying home alone! His laughter is contagious and he is known to mimic the laughter of others...in particular the laughter of someone an aisle over in Target....it has happened many times. He also mimics coughs and sneezes.
There is so much more to be told. I will stop here for tonight. One more week of school for us both before we get two solid weeks together! I look forward to Christmas with him. I thank you for your continued prayers. It seems he has been mine forever. I cannot believe it has been just two months! Have a blessed end of 2013!
By date on the calendar, today is the two month anniversary of Mack setting foot in the USA! It's pretty hard to even think back to how things were in those first days and weeks.
Currently he is sound asleep in his own bed with his monkey and Snoopy. Bed time is sooooooo sweet now. We read Good Night Moon and the Runaway Bunny in my bed (although tonight we read The Story of Christmas), then we pray (how he folds his hands the ENTIRE time I pray, which is often a long time, and how he has his own things to pray too) and then we sing Jesus Loves Me (to which he sings along now) Jesus loves the little children and Jesus Name Above All Names, before setting him into bed. Tonight he didn't get out. Most nights he gets up once or twice and I no longer need to put him back, I simple say "THREE, TWO..." and his little feet run him back and under the covers he goes :-)
He repeats EVERYTHING and talks away in Creole. On the way home from school each day I go through the colors and names of people we love. He repeats everything fairly clearly. Yesterday I got to my aunt Jackie and he says, "Jackie." I say, "Grandma," and he says, "Jackie," I say, "Grandpa," and he says, "Jackie." I look back like, WHAT?!?!? He is tugging at his jacket saying, "Jackie! Jackie!" LOL.
He has completed two weeks in his classroom at school. He truly enjoys it. He cries every morning as I leave him. He gives me the BEST smile and hug in the world when I come to pick him up.
He expects to watch "Elmo's Christmas Countdown" every morning before school (tough to do, but I need some time to get ready, so he watches it from 5:30-6:00).
He and the cats are best buds. He disciplines them regularly as well, pointing his finger and telling them, "NO!" and "Stop!"
He has received two haircuts from his Uncle Jermaine and is just the cutest!
He loves to have company, although his behavior can be quite unpredictable when we do have guests over. Grandma and Grandpa are his favorites to see along with his cousins and his buddies from GLA.
When he wakes in the night and comes to my room he goes right to his bed that is beside my bed. I am just amazed at his adjustment sleeping wise. He is comfortable and secure.
He LOVES his bath time. I think the laying in the tub up to his eye balls started from being so tired from his day at school but now this is a nightly tradition. He lays flat down and is unaffected by the water creeping close to his eyes, nose and mouth! He picks bath toys up with his feet and listens to the sound under the water as well as above.
As far as English on his own, he is saying "Eat," "Please, Mommy," "I love you," "Kitties," "I want...." "Banana," "Elmo," "Jesus," "Amen," "Bunny," "Stop," "What," "All done," "Wait," "Baby," "Water," "Monkey," Bye-Bye," "Hi," "Hello," "Ball," "Hot," "Snow," "Yummy," "Icky,"......can't wait to see what the next month holds! I am sure there are more words than this, but this is a good list for now!"
Today we went to the Santa Brunch at his school. I showed him a picture of Santa before we went. He said, "JESUS!" Ha, ha. We sat in the lunchroom and it was so fun to see how his table behavior has changed in two months! At his school the kids sit at tables for meals with open top cups and plates of food. He sat there today and ate his breakfast with no issues! Tonight we went out to eat and for the first time I did not put him in a high chair and no bib. He has GROWN so much!!!!
This child of mine cleans up after himself. He shovels with and for me (SO cute, he really shovels!) He helps me load the washer and dryer. He can get in and out of the car and carseat by himself. When he is done with the bath he tells me so, opens the drain and cleans up all of the toys. :-) He tolerates getting his hair brushed now. He told me, "I love you," without me saying it first! He is STRONGER than any little child I have ever known and I just can't wait to see what he will do athletically with this body of his! When I lotion him up at night and get to his hands he squeezes my hands SO hard that I know I will be able to teach him how to massage and he will someday rub his mommy's hands, feet and back! (here's hoping!)
He loves play doh, cars, Elmo, books, balls, shoes, balloons, and the list goes on. He does NOT like hats or mittens! He also STOPS dead in his tracks every time we get ready to leave the house now and this is due to the cold he feels. Today he stopped, looked at me and said, "Bye bye" and turned around as if he was staying home alone! His laughter is contagious and he is known to mimic the laughter of others...in particular the laughter of someone an aisle over in Target....it has happened many times. He also mimics coughs and sneezes.
There is so much more to be told. I will stop here for tonight. One more week of school for us both before we get two solid weeks together! I look forward to Christmas with him. I thank you for your continued prayers. It seems he has been mine forever. I cannot believe it has been just two months! Have a blessed end of 2013!
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Milestones
Well, the day is actually here. Tomorrow morning marks 7 weeks home and Mack and I will get in the car together at 6:30 am and I will drop him off at the child development center he will attend. I spent much time looking for just the right place and spent much time in prayer over this. We have visited and he has participated in the class 5 times. The kids know him by name as do the teachers. He is not speaking much English yet it will be exciting to see how he develops in that way as well as so many other ways over the next 15 days of class before we have 2 weeks off for Christmas and New Years.
I can't believe this day is here. I know in my heart that leaving him in the morning is going to be so hard on both of us. He does not do well at all with good byes. I have decided I will tell him I will see him later and that I will be back. Once he gets over the initial shock of us not being together he is going to love it.
I have to figure out how to prepare for school?!?! May not be able to do that in the evenings and on weekends anymore but rather actually find a way to use my prep to plan!
I wish I had time to write down all of the ways he has been growing....but to be brief, he is growing, thriving, learning, adjusting, attaching...I am going to sleep early! Good Night and thanks for your prayers!!!
I can't believe this day is here. I know in my heart that leaving him in the morning is going to be so hard on both of us. He does not do well at all with good byes. I have decided I will tell him I will see him later and that I will be back. Once he gets over the initial shock of us not being together he is going to love it.
I have to figure out how to prepare for school?!?! May not be able to do that in the evenings and on weekends anymore but rather actually find a way to use my prep to plan!
I wish I had time to write down all of the ways he has been growing....but to be brief, he is growing, thriving, learning, adjusting, attaching...I am going to sleep early! Good Night and thanks for your prayers!!!
Fun with Grandma last week while I was at school!
Celebrating at MOA after we made it through our first 2 days apart...goodness whatever shall we do this Friday?!?
Visiting with another friend from GLA who is now in MN!
First haircut w/ Uncle Jermaine
Looking sharp
Selfie with Mommy
Ready for bed!
He loved Watermelon!
Naptime before Thanksgiving dinner
Hanging out under the trees at Grandpa's tree lot
He is so comfortable at home...love it when he smiles!
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Going, Going, Gone......
And just like that, 46 days have passed. Forty-six days ago there was a little boy in Haiti that I spent 3 days with. I fell deeper and deeper in love with him as the days and months wore on. I waited, waited and waited some more for the day to come when I could go and bring him home. Who was I to him? No one really. He did not know me. I know God was doing a work in each of us separately as He prepared to bring us together as a family, but truly I did not know this little boy of mine and he did not know me.
We have had 46 days to get to know each other. We have had a wonderful 46 days. Some days were hard. Some were full of silliness. Today....boy, I have all sorts of conflicting emotions going on inside of me. So many people have months and months at home with their kids. Some are always home. God knew way back in August of 2011 as I began this process and he started to weave together my family that I would have limited time away from work. He knew this when he was preparing the children that he would bless me with to parent. Rather than be sad today, I trust that the Lord has this all in His hands and He has plenty of work for me to do from 7-3 each day with my 5th grade students. My little boy is going to be more than ok! He gets to spend two days with Grandma and then beginning next week he will be in school from 7-3 where I am sure he will grow leaps and bounds more than he would with just me at home! He will be with 3 teachers and 10 other kiddos what we have both grown to love over our 3 weeks of visits.
I am sure there is more to learn about each other, but we know each other now. The smile he gives me now is not the smile he gave me 46 days ago. When we look into each other's eyes, there is love, security and a bond. I love him with all of my heart! He makes me so proud! Little things he does just make me thank God for blessing me with such a wonderful and special gift. He is such a bundle of personality and I cannot wait to continue watching him grow as we begin to spend our days apart.
Pray for me! Pray for him! Pray for Grandma over the next two days! Also pray for those 3 teachers and 10 others kids.
Thank you for sharing this journey with me! I pray that before Christmas I will have some more exciting news to share with you!!!! Have a blessed THANKSGIVING!!!!
We have had 46 days to get to know each other. We have had a wonderful 46 days. Some days were hard. Some were full of silliness. Today....boy, I have all sorts of conflicting emotions going on inside of me. So many people have months and months at home with their kids. Some are always home. God knew way back in August of 2011 as I began this process and he started to weave together my family that I would have limited time away from work. He knew this when he was preparing the children that he would bless me with to parent. Rather than be sad today, I trust that the Lord has this all in His hands and He has plenty of work for me to do from 7-3 each day with my 5th grade students. My little boy is going to be more than ok! He gets to spend two days with Grandma and then beginning next week he will be in school from 7-3 where I am sure he will grow leaps and bounds more than he would with just me at home! He will be with 3 teachers and 10 other kiddos what we have both grown to love over our 3 weeks of visits.
I am sure there is more to learn about each other, but we know each other now. The smile he gives me now is not the smile he gave me 46 days ago. When we look into each other's eyes, there is love, security and a bond. I love him with all of my heart! He makes me so proud! Little things he does just make me thank God for blessing me with such a wonderful and special gift. He is such a bundle of personality and I cannot wait to continue watching him grow as we begin to spend our days apart.
Pray for me! Pray for him! Pray for Grandma over the next two days! Also pray for those 3 teachers and 10 others kids.
Thank you for sharing this journey with me! I pray that before Christmas I will have some more exciting news to share with you!!!! Have a blessed THANKSGIVING!!!!
My favorite little buddy in his class at school :-)
Sorting colored bears
Riding the bike at church...he thinks he's doing it all alone...thanks to his honorary big sis :-)
Popcorn with cousins
Donuts with friends from Haiti :-)
LOVE THESE 3!
First trip to Barber Shop
First haircut in the USA
Mr. Personality
Being a cacoon with his cousin
All this playing tires me out!
Remembering Tyesha
A visit to her grave
A visit to Feed My Starving Children
He knew just what to do
Mommy made sure I got LOTS of sleep!!! Monkey did too!
This is the new addition to my room since I don't always stay in my bed...Mommy gives me a few chances but then she puts me in here....the cats like the new addition too.
Yep, today's nap was in this...I don't like this but sometimes it's what I have to do!
My backyard! Cannot wait to see more lights around town!
I am not too sure about this cold! Mommy caught me reading under all the covers.
Yep I'm under there.
Our last day together before Mommy goes back to school.
Reading GOOD NIGHT MOON :-)
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