Sunday, November 2, 2014

Orphan Sunday


Today is Orphan Sunday. God calls us all to help.  There are so many ways to help.  You know me, you know Mack.  You wanna help?  There is a button to the left.  This paypal link will let you contribute in a tax deductible way.  Adoption is very costly.  We need help.  Thank you for considering! You donation will directly help a little one find a family!


Saturday, October 4, 2014

Only God Knew....

 I just have to really give GOD a big shout out for what HE was doing as he matched kiddos with forever families who did not know each other at all, but who have come to know each other through these kiddos!  We all literally live miles from each other.  We were all on this journey alone...being called to adopt a child from Haiti.  Then, through the wonderful world of FB, we begin to connect.  Even way back when as we were walking through each ever so slow step of this process, I don't think we could have foreseen get togethers like this!  As our kids were all together month after month and as we as parents chatted over FB, God was establishing relationships that would last a life time.


We got together this time because Melissa (who runs the Guest House in Haiti) happened to be coming to MN.  Such a joy to see her with each of the kids! Susie, who took all of the amazing pictures of our kids month after month, sending us such wonderful updates is with us in MN for the year so it also is a HUGE blessing for all of us to stay connected with her!

 Thank you LORD for the gift of these children and their families!

Adoption #2

Would you look at that....to the right....1 year, 8 months, 1 week and 2 days since I began the second adoption and still I have nothing to tell you.  The sad part for my heart is that there is a child who is 1 year, 8 months, 1 week and 2 days older who is simply "stuck" where they are.  Why does this all take so long!?!?!  Truly only God knows why and He has all the answers.

I did NOT want to begin any fundraising push before I had a picture or a name....perhaps I will have that soon.  I wanted to ask you all to consider buying a Haitian made Christmas ornament or bracelet. I have ordered 100 of each.  Each ornament or bracelet will be $8.  You probably remember the drill. $4 will go to help cover adoption expenses for #2 and $4 will go to the Haitian who created the product, providing income.

These items will not arrive until the end of October.  Right in time for the gifts you need/want for Thanksgiving and Christmas :-) If you are in MN then it's a great excuse to also see Mack!  We are just days away from him being home for 1 year!  Can hardly believe it!

Thanks for considering!



Sunday, September 21, 2014

Update on life

It's been A LONG time since I blogged.  Over 3 months!  What a great 3 months it was!  We had a simply WONDERFUL summer together!  And then it came to an end.  The plan for the school year was that Mack would continue at the same child development center as last year, attending pre-kindergarten in the morning, and then he would ride a bus to my school to attend pre-kindergarten in the afternoon.  There are MANY, MANY reasons why I thought this was the best plan for him.  I prayed and prayed over this.  After 16 days of doing this, we are scaling back!  I am a teacher.  Nearly EVERY year, nearly EVERY 5th grader enters my 5th grade class at age 10.  MANY, MANY, MANY people felt I should think about not entering Mack into kindergarten until he is 6, since he is a boy and he has a late summer birthday, etc, etc....but I'm like, NO one enters my class already being 11....seriously this has happened two times.

If I could stay at home with him, I would wait.  If I had an option for him that would not cost me an arm and a leg and did not include 18 children in a class, I would wait.  My thinking was that he is gonna be in full time care anyways, so lets get him learning and growing and such!

Well, he definitely is learning.  He is also growing, in EVERY way.  BUT, developmentally he is really more like a 3 year old right now....3 going on 4.  By next fall he will definitely be more like a 4 year old and maybe even a 5 year old.  By the time he turns 6, he will start kindergarten and within a month of school starting, some of his classmates will also turn 6, and instead of being the youngest in his class with his history, he will be one of the oldest and this should be a great asset to him.

Mack has grown 5 inches in height in the past 11 months!  He has gained 10 pounds!  He has learned loads of English!  He knows his colors, can count to 10 and sometimes beyond and can identify many letters.  He has come from Haiti to Minnesota.  He has learned to really trust people.  He sleeps through the night.  I won't list the million and one ways he has grown this year, but he has grown and is growing.  Beginning tomorrow he will stay all day at his preschool.  Instead of getting on a bus and coming to more instruction and learning at my school, he will go play outside on the playground, eat lunch and have a 1-2 hour rest time.  It will still be an adjustment for him.  As much as he was struggling with his no nap, listen and learn ALL day routine, it was becoming his routine.  Pray for him as he stays put all day tomorrow.  He loves his teacher and the feeling is mutual.  Pray for him as he continues to grow in all kinds of ways.  Pray that he can relax, rest and even sleep at nap time (this has been a challenge for him, sleeping away from mommy).  Pray for his teachers.  Pray for the others kids he calls friends.  :-)  Thank you so much for your continued prayers!

Stay tuned for Mack's ONE YEAR HOME!  Just 23 days away!  Also stay tuned for that day when I may have some kind of news to share about adoption #2!



Thursday, June 12, 2014

Language

The learning of a new language is a tricky thing.  Often around others it does not appear he knows ANY English, as in the case of pre-kindergarten screening this week.  He has a long ways to go and this is just 10 minutes of me listing words he says while he is napping and I know there are MANY more.....but I have not updated in a LONG time as to words he can say.....so here goes!  I remember MONTHS ago wishing for just a word!  One word!  A few words!  Anything!


Airplane
All
Alone
Apple
Apple sauce
Arm
Baby
Back
Backpack
Ball
Banana
Basketball
Bath
Be nice
Bear
Bible
Big
Bike
Birdie
Black
Blanket
Blue
Book
Bottle
Bounce
Boy
Broken
Brush
Bunny
Bus
Butt
Bye
Candy
Car
Chair
Cheek
Chew
Chin
Clap
cold
Comb
Coming 
Couch
Count
Cup 
Daddy
Diaper
Doggy
Dolphin
Don’t
Down
Ears
Eight
Elbow
Eyes
Feet
Fish
Five
Flip flops
Floor
Fork
Four
Friend
Go
Gone
Good
Grass
Grass
Green
Gross
Hair
Haircut
Hands
Happy
Hat
He
Head
Hello
Helmet
Help
Hold
Home
Hop
Hot
House
Hug
Hurt
I’m
Icky
It
Jacket
Jesus
Job
Juice
Jump 
June
Keys
Kick
Kiss
Kitty
Knee
Leave 
Legs
Lips
Locked
Look
Loud
Love
Mango
Me
Milk
Mine
Minute
Mitten
Moon
Mommy
Monkey
More
Morning
Mouth
Move
Night
Nine
No
Nose
Num
Numbers
One
Oops
Open
Otter
Ouch
Outside
Over
Owie
Pants
Paper
Peanut butter
Pen
Phone
Picture
Pillow
Pizza
Please
Please
Poop
Pull up
Puzzle
Rain
Raisins
Read
Red
Right
Run
Sad 
School
Scissors
Seven 
Share
She
Shirt
Shoes
Shoot
Sink
Six
Skip
Sleep
Small
Snack
Snow
Soap
Socks 
Sorry
Spoon
Stop
Teacher
Teeth
Ten
That
There
Thirteen 
This
Three
Throw
Tired
Tissue
Toilet
Tongue
Too sunny
Towel
Trampoline
Tree
Tummy
Turn
Tv
Two
Umbrella
Under
Up
Wait
Wake
Walk
Want
Wash
Watch
Water
Water
Way
Wednesday
Week
What
Where
Window
Yellow
Yep
You
Yummy
Zip

Monday, April 14, 2014

6 months home!

Wow!  Half a year!  The biggest thing I have noticed lately is his manners and his imagination!  He will be in the car and call to me, "Look mommy, he's sleeping!"  He points to his water bottle that is rocking inside of his hat.  Today we got back in the car from shopping and his doggie was on the floor of the car.  He was mortified!  "OH doggie!  Oh no!  Oh baby!"  He picks the doggie up and proceeds to hold him, pat his back and kiss him.  This kid is a comforter and he definitely has empathy locked in!  Just now he needed his stuffed kitty to go poopy and then he was trying to teach him to stand up.  Yesterday he was playing with two refrigerator magnets only the magnets represented two friends and they were talking to each other and such. :-)

This morning in church he was sitting on my lap and clapping his hands during worship.  He got a little carried away with it and hit me in the face.  Instantly he looks at me and says, "Sorry mommy." He also says, "Mesi Mommy," right away.  He will not say THANK YOU.  He knows how to and he prefers the Creole, "Mesi." :-)

One of his daily passtimes is to name off EVERYONE he knows!  He does this by going, "Avery! um, um, JoJo, um, um, Amourah, um, um, Ms. Willie, um, um...." until he has named literally everyone :-)

I dread the day he truly gets a phone, lol, but this is one of the many things he "needs" these days!  He has great conversations on the phone (with no one on the other end).  He also needs candy, a doggie and Daniel Tiger quite often.

He has been taking gymnastics for about a month and loves it.  He also continues to love basketball, soccer and baseball.

He can zip his coat and anything else on his own.  He puts his own shoes on.  Anytime he does one of these things he exclaims, "I did it!  Good job!"  Yesterday he chose his own clothes which consisted of navy sweat pant shorts, socks, gray Jordan's, a bright green shirt with head phones on it along with a down red winter coat.....like this we went on a car ride....no pants...just shorts...he was a sight.

He desperately wants to ride a bike but has not gotten the hang of the pedals.  He loves riding his scooter.  We are both excited about spring BUT I should stop stopping at every park he NEEDS to go to.  That is another thing he often needs, "Mommy, I need slide."  He loves to go on slides.

His eating has picked up quite a bit.  Tonight besides the macaroni and hotdogs, he also ate carrots, cauliflower, broccoli, peas and salmon!  I am so proud of him for this!  A healthy boy he shall be!

At 6 months home sleeping in his own room and bed is not an option and I have come to terms with that.  He sleeps in the toddler bed next to my bed.  He sleeps all night with the exception of sometimes calling my name a few time and when I say, "I'm here," or something like that there is not another peep.

He can point out colors when I say the names of them...he does not offer the color name on his own.  But I ask, "Where is purple?" and he gets it right most of the time.  He also clearly knows how to count forward and backwards from 10, but he does not do it on his own.  If I say a number he says the next number.  He does not seem to have a grasp of the alphabet but we are working on it.  He loves puzzles and books!  His favorite book is, "Good night, moon."

At bedtime most recently he needs a long hug, a kiss and then we need to touch thumbs that are in the good-job, thumbs up position.  He then says, "Good job!  Good boy!"  Not sure if this is coming from his preschool?  Maybe the give him thumbs up and say those phrases once he finally lays down and resolves to sleep/rest?!?  Sleep or rest at his school are still not the strong parts of his day.

For Spring Break we took a trip to Florida and he was in his element.  He loved the warmth.  He came alive in the pool and at the beach!  I saw faces and smiles that I had never seen him make before! It was a wonderful get away!  He was able to speak with some Haitian women while we are there and come to find out he understands Creole and was responding verbally.

Pray for us for this summer and next year.  We lose our spot in our child care if he does not go full time this summer and that just does not seem like a good plan to me.  I have nothing against the 4-5 year old room at his school.  It would be just fine.  He is on the roster to go to High 5 at my school next year which I would really love for him to do!  I would need 1/2 day childcare so this is the piece I need prayer for.  I am okay with 5 different people a week caring for him if necessary!  Each day would be a special day for him!  It would be short, just a few hours, until I can come for him.  I would love to arrive at school in the morning and have him go to his classroom.  It is a wonderful pre-kindergarten program!

I almost forgot, he can point out 7 states on the US map!  He knows Florida, Alaska, Tennessee, Oklahoma, Texas, Illinois and Minnesota.  He's got a great start on the 4th grade standard :-)

I am sure there is much more to tell but as he drifts off to sleep I shall look for some pictures to add and then get ready for the new week of school and Holy Week!  He is ALIVE!  I will not post this until tomorrow as it was 6 months ago on the 14th and a Monday at that, that he came home forever!










Friday, March 14, 2014

FIVE MONTHS HOME

Wow, hard to believe in just 30 days he will have been home 1/2 a year! I believe I missed the 4 month post...but 5 months here we are!  He now talks up a storm!  Too many words for me to write here....but he knows how to say what he does and doesn't want.  He has said things like, "I want to go outside!" and "Mommy, eat your eggs!"  He can name colors and often points to the right color while naming it.  He loves the word PURPLE.
 At five months home he has a hefty appetite.  He is quick to tell me when he needs to eat!  Tonight he asked for more and more carrots at supper!  He loves french toast sticks and today he discovered that he likes tomatoes!

He is doing well in his preschool class although he naps very little so evening are often a challenge!  He is usually in bed between 6:30 and 7!  

At school he looks forward to seeing his teachers and friends every day. I know this mainly because he talks himself to sleep at night by going over their names over and over again.  Often I think he says phrases that that teacher must say a lot like, "Be nice! Miss Willie."  And "Excuse me.  Ms. Crystal.":-)

In school he has a FULL day of play and learning.  At this point in time I have been teaching after school so I pick him up an hour later to his dismay because they are always in the gym at this point and he hates to leave.  He has gotten very good at dribbling a full size basketball and he insists on practicing all by himself and will not share that ball, so this we need to work on!
We have begun the potty training path but not rigorously.  He uses the toilet regularly but I am not pushing it!  He loves to brush his teeth and hates to have his hair brushed/combed.  He has received MANY haircuts from his uncle Jermaine and now can sit in the chair for his haircut with me across the barber shop from him.

He talks about Grandma, Grandpa, Avery, JoJo and Jahlia EVERY DAY, always hoping to see them. He attended his first Timberwolves game and currently we are on the countdown to his second airplane ride to spend Spring Break in Florida!  He has almost survived the most brutal winter I believe he will ever have to endure.  He will be happy to be done with mittens and hats!  More great times to come!  We await news on who Mack's brother or sister will be!  Stay tuned!  Happy almost spring!